I have been hosting travellers for more than 5 years including other websites
So I have met so many travellers and some of them became my friends now
I like to talk about self-help
From learning many languages to understanding a lot of stuff to improve myself
Such as :
- The secret is that productivity isn’t about time, but about maintaining focus and energy
- Well, one thing is for sure: nice people tend to make less money and receive worse reviews than their meaner peers. Just take a study by the Harvard Business Review, which found that men who are low on the “agreeableness” scale make up to $10,000 more per year than those who are very affable
- For example, a study of the Five Factor Model test of personality used by psychologists found that entrepreneurs had, among other personality traits, huge amounts of disagreeableness. It showed that many leaders reached their level of success by taking social gambles and having the boldness not to compromise their beliefs. Despite the fact that they could easily have been shunned by their peers and excluded from positions of power and influence, they took this risk to succeed.
- In order to expand your zone, you have to do something that feels uncomfortable every day
A single dream is more powerful than a thousand realities
J. R. R. Tolkien
If you have a dream, and truly believe you can achieve it, then you will be able to see that dream come true if you try hard, and work for it, no matter what reality says to you.
Mohammed Ali worked his butt off
When he was doing sit-ups in the gym, a sportswriter asked him "How many sit-ups do you do?"
He said "I don't start counting until it hurts"
Think about it, he doesn't start counting his sit-ups and builds up to feel pain, that's when he starts counting
That is working hard
Arnold Schwarzenegger has said he doesn't have Plan B. He hates Plan B
There are so many doubters
We have so many of those people who say you can't do it, that's impossible
So if you start doubting yourself, you will probably think if my plan doesn't work, I have a fallback plan, that's plan B
That means that you start thinking about Plan B and you are taking away energy from Plan A
But it's very important that you should understand that we perform better if there is no safety net
Plan B is the safety net.
People say if I fail and get picked up Plan B and I'll be alright
But it's not.
People do better in everything if they don't have a plan B
If there is no plan B, people can make a full commitment to achieve what they want, people do the work very hard, over and over until they get it
The founder of the E-commerce giant Alibaba Jack Ma when he established his company, other competitors came and took away his people
The funny thing is that smart people who had their vision of themselves and new ideas were taken away from other companies
The rest of the other people stayed in the company because they're not very smart as much as him according to Jack Ma
Nobody came to try to hunt them so they didn't have a choice but they believed what they're doing, what they wanted to achieve
They believed their dream
Steve Jobs explained what the difference between successful and unsuccessful people is
Successful people loved what they did so they could persevere when it got really tough
But the ones that didn't love their jobs, they quit because they're not insane
When the difficult realities block the way of them, unsuccessful people seek for a Plan B and quit the work they're doing because they are pretty enough rational not to put up with the hard stuff that they don't love
They give up because it cost a lot of hard work, effort and continuous failures
Who can make a strong stand if they don't love it?
Who can keep facing tough realities if they don't have a true goal or a powerful dream?
You have to have tunnel vision
Get rid of Plan B
You will face a lot of failures while on the road for what you want to achieve
You're going to fail ten times, a hundred times, maybe even a thousand times
But that's ok. Failure is not permanent
You fail and get up and fail and stand up again if you have a clear goal and dream
Many people around you might say that you're not going to make it; you can't be the person who you want
When you hear that, tell them they are right
You will fail as they said
But you are not afraid of fail, you are not afraid of taking action, you don't hesitate to stand up again, you are ready to get many failures
And you know this
You have strong tunnel vision of yourself; you have your own dream
A single dream is so powerful than a thousand realities
Do what you love to do
Don't ever never give up
I really like reading and learning those things
If you are interested in them, let's talk
If you like to learn Korean, I can help you as well but I don't have time to teach Korean.
1. You can learn Korean with Anki program(SRS program)
2. I can explain how to learn Korean very well and fast
3. This method can be used in any language
I need you to improve my languages, English, Japanese, Chinese, Spanish, and French
English, French are priorities this year. Other languages are needed next year
3 hours' conversation in your language from Monday to Friday
I have been learning those languages at least for more than 1 year and I have also native friends and use them every day.
So please help me just your mother tongue (I have received many messages from non-native speakers)
English, 中文, 日本語, Español, Français, Bahasa Indonesia
My house is a new apartment and has 3 rooms and 1 toilet.
You will use one private room
Can you put this term "I read all your profile" in your request?
Sometimes some travelers don't read my profile and just send the same request that they send to other hosts
That's why I am asking this.
3 hours teaching per day, 5 days a week