“What do you mean you’re taking a year off? You’re an adult. You’re supposed to work,” my co-worker demanded when I told her I was quitting.
I winced. Was she right? I had a full-time job as an ICU nurse, a position I’d worked hard (and paid a lot of money in schooling) to earn. I had my own apartment, a close group of friends, and was lucky to live near to family. On paper, I had it all.
I was living the dream but it wasn't mine.
While my colleagues planned weddings, bought new cars, and scoured real-estate sites for houses with three-car garages, I was looking at plane tickets and planning my next getaway.
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Finding my sense of purpose in the world
At first, I had no idea I’d leave nursing in favor of long-term travel. At the time, I hadn’t even heard of
Workaway.
All I knew was that I wasn’t happy with my current life trajectory. The unease I felt kept me awake at night searching for answers on blogs and reading
books, all in an attempt to figure out what I really wanted.
I looked for inspiration everywhere. Thinking
I might like to be a farmer, I interned at an organic farm for a season before quickly realizing that profession wouldn’t give me nearly enough time to travel! I thought about going back to school to get my Master’s Degree in Public Health and took a two-month leave of absence to complete an international public health internship in
Ecuador. I even considered joining the Peace Corps.
Every avenue I explored gave me more information about what I liked and what I didn’t, allowing me to dream of new possibilities for my life beyond the box of “supposed to”.
A glimpse into an alternative life on the road
While I spent time trying new opportunities,
the thing I kept returning to that made me come alive more than anything else, was travel. It wasn’t until I took a month-long trip with my friend to Europe that I realized I could turn it into a lifestyle. While staying at a hostel in
Greece, we met an older gentleman on a pilgrimage from Rome to Jerusalem. On a ferry boat, we met backpackers who’d been traveling longer than a year, staying with hosts from Workaway. Hearing their stories opened new doorways to my future.
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After that trip, I went home intoxicated by the thrill of adventure.
Rather than saving for another degree or committing years to the Peace Corps, I decided to plan my very own sabbatical. When I tell people now that I quit my job
as a nurse to
travel solo around the world for fourteen months, it seems kind of dramatic. In fact, I believe it’s the decision that saved my life, the one I was meant to live.
Looking back, it’s easy to connect the dots and see how each choice led me to where I am now.
Workaway helped me change my career, learn how to live in community, and embrace the unknown... It provided experiences and relationships that continue to shape me.
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So how do you know if you’re ready to quit your job and travel the world?
The best advice I have is to plan ahead.
Seek out stories from people who have trailblazed
a similar path. Courage is a collective resource.
Draw on the bravery of others and learn from their success until you have enough confidence to take the leap.Hold your vision while taking small, practical steps toward your goal. I worked extra shifts for almost two and a half years before I quit my job to travel. I moved in with my mom to
save money on rent and used my two-month internship in Ecuador to see if I had the grit to travel long-term. (Turns out, I did).
Be honest with yourself.
Look into other options before making a final decision. Maybe you’d rather change your career path, go back to school, move to a new area, or take more frequent short-term trips?
Long-term travel is different than going on a vacation. It takes
a certain mind shift and the willingness to live with uncertainty (which is part of the adventure, right?)
By taking yourself and the decision to embark on a global adventure seriously, you will set yourself up to have a life-changing experience with a positive impact on yourself and others. And when you decide to make the leap, we’ll be right here, cheering you on!
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